iv nutrition
I wanted to wait a little bit before posting about the most recent medical “event”. I didn’t want to post a knee jerk response venting or minimizing. I wanted to have time to adjust a little before sharing with others.
I went in to the hospital early Tuesday morning. There I sat…all day. Bored to tears. It wasn’t until 8:30pm that they finally hooked me up to my first bag of iv nutrition. They also started me on a medication to address the esophageal spasms. Just before bed, I felt the familiar (and unpleasant) sensations of a urinary tract infection. If that wasn’t enough, I woke up around 3am Wednesday morning with a major headache. They said it was a side effect to the medication and they discontinued it. Wednesday was basically the same dull routine as Tuesday. I ended up crocheting 9 cowls (and sold two to nurses!!).
I was released around 11am on Thursday. Thursday afternoon a home care nurse came to my place to teach me how to hook up the pump and inject the extra ingredients into the liquid nutrition bag. Time to be hooked up to pump = 18 hours a day.
Details about the pump and tubing: I have a semi-permanent iv line (called a PICC line) in my upper left arm. When hooking up the pump, I attach 4-feet (Measured – it is 6 feet) of tubing to the PICC line and at the end of the tubing is a 10 pound bag of white liquid. Close to the bag is a small pump (around 7 inches tall, 4 inches wide and 2 inches deep; weighing about 1 ½ pound). Set-up isn’t difficult – just a series of steps with a lot of care to keeping everything sterile. Once I am hooked up, I occassionally need to check my blood sugar. The nutrition bag and pump are then placed in a backpack like bag which I can carry around with me as I move about. The only problem is that it is heavy and I have managed to forget to grab it as I have moved – stopping me in a few feet with a yank. The tubing gets caught on knobs and chairs and well, darn near everything. I have to put on my jammies at 6:30pm when I hook up the pump or I have to later stop the pump, disconnect, change clothes, sterilize, re-hook, restart. The cats are amused by the soft noises the pump is making – I have to keep my eye on them as I found one cat digging in the bag and the other cat chewing on the tubing.
Over the last week, the formula has been tweaked based on blood tests and additional fluid added. I am also down to a 14-hour pump cycle. Once they increased the volume and pump time, I have been plagued with diarrhea.
Oh, and they did put me back on the same medication – just at a very reduced dose (no headache).
So, what’s it like? I haven’t ventured out with the pump yet. I am not comfortable with the tubing and the lugging the bag around. I hook up around 7pm and I am done around 10am. This gives me some freedom during the day. The home care pharmacy delivers my nutrition bags twice a week (whoopee).
How am I feeling? Physically, I don’t feel THAT much different. A little less exhausted – I don’t nap off and on all day like before. The light-headed feelings have gone. The diarrhea is a downer – comes on suddenly without much warning – sometimes no warning at all. Puts a damper on wanting to be out in public much. I am still nauseous 24/7. The medication has had no effect on the spasms – whenever I take my pills, I vomit the liquid. I’ve had a few bouts of dry heaves/spasms and some discomfort resulting from them. The bile vomiting has not improved at all – this sucks big time.
The docs say it may take a few weeks before I feel the full benefit from the nutrition as far as my energy level.
The hardest thing to get used to is nothing to eat or drink. Even though food/drink made me vomit, it felt “normal” to try to eat/drink. Now, it feels wrong not to even try. I confess that I have done the “chew and spit” a few times just to get that sense of eating. It’s not at all satisfying. I’ve had a few popsicles to try to quench my thirst (not always the best move).
At some point in the near future (no one knew exactly when), all the GI docs and the surgeons will gather at one of their monthly meetings and my case will be presented for brainstorming. Why it has taken 11 months is still beyond me. I try to not dwell on thoughts like that – but I feel I have simply replaced one type of limbo with another. I don’t have any appointments to see anyone other than my primary care physician – unless you call the “see you in 2 months” visit with the surgeon who has pretty much passed me off to the nutrition department (Oh, do you sense my irritation with this surgeon? Trust me, the irritation is very present.).
Emotionally…I am hanging in there. I sold one item on Ebay http://shop.ebay.com/katherinescrafts/m.html – unfortunately, it was one of the least expensive items listed. I might have another one sold, payment is still pending. Haven’t sold any more on esty http://www.etsy.com/shop/NoMoreColdNecks . A little discouraged. I guess that is the word that best describes my mood – discouraged.
I still have to shop for groceries (usually by myself – they are too busy or simply refuse). Of course, they are first to complain if I got the wrong item or I forgot the item they didn’t tell me to get. Each night, I fix the boys dinner – which I can’t eat. I make them breakfast – which I can’t eat. Thursday, I will do the traditional Thanksgiving dinner complete with turkey, stuffing, green bean casserole, pecan pie, blahblahblah. I will watch the kids eat. Gee, sounds like so much fun.
This current funk will pass in time. Meanwhile, I just want to pull a blanket over my head and hide from the world.
Will trade/rent three lazy children : these children are good for spending their waking hours in their rooms playing video games and watching tv and chatting with friends on the phone or computer. They don’ t understand why they have to do chores “because I stay home all day and nap” (can you recognize the voice of the exhole speaking through them?) Time to get rid of electricity to their rooms. These kids are 75%-88% useless. Will trade for two teens who like to clean, listen to tv softly, will play the occassional board game with me (I get bored), will help me cook, blah blah.
As far as emotional support – wrong house. If they notice anything that is being done differently do to MYMEDICALCONDITION, they will either get mad, make snide comments, exaggerate the issue, yell at me, call me names, refuse to do what has been asked, ignore me, mock me, etc. I called Ryann after bad office visit. I was crying and she said “mom, you need to stop crying – it’s really irritating and makes me mad that you are feeling sorry for yourself.” When I told them it would be a while longer before I can think about looking for work – all of them made a snotty comment about my inability to make money – and how much it is affecting their lives. I’ve tried to explain but I am tuned out or told to tell someone who gives shit. Trying to get them to at least do the dishes after a meal pushes me to my brink. I’ve ended up doing just to shut their nasty mouths from continuing to flap.
This current funk will pass in time. Meanwhile, I just want to pull a blanket over my head and hide from the world.